Vicki Mullen
I waited until after our 40th reunion to respond to some of the comments made by other classmates in this area. While I was raised in Kearney, I went to Zion Lutheran School through 8th grade, and only had seven other classmates when we went on to Jr. High. I can't tell you how petrified I was the first day to find over 300 others in my class. My first class that day was Algebra I with Mr. Gallant so I picked a desk and sat down. Before everyone had settled in the girl in front of me turned around and introduced herself as Tracy Sisler. Maybe I just got lucky it was her, but we are good friends to this day. Over the next few days she introduced me to a number of other people and help me gain the confidence to reach out and introduce myself to other people in my classes.
Over the next 4 years I was very fortunate to become friends with the "popular kids" and the not so popular kids. I joined Boosters and still have fond memories of traveling to out of town games, I got a job at the Drive-In and World Theaters and met a bunch of new people, in other words, I made an effort to get to meet and know my classmates. I still think of myself as a very lucky person to call these people my closest friends.
I have always taken great pride in being a part of the Class of 1971 mainly because I met very few members of this class that ever made me feel that they thought they were better than me. Certainly not as many as I saw in the classes ahead of us. I looked forward to this Reunion as I have every reunion as a chance to catch up with the people I shared much of my teen years with. As usual, I was rewarded with two days of sharing old memories and making new ones. I shared in the joy of pictures of children and grandchildren and found solace in being able to share the grief of the recent loss of a parent with so many others in the same position.
If I haven't done a very good job of getting my point across, let me put it this way: life is what you make of it. If you want to continue to carry around hard feelings for 40 years than you probably shouldn't attend the Reunions because it is still the same as it was then YOU are the person who controls how other people react to you. For me, I have to go to bed because I'm not as young as I once was and two days of fun and laughter just plain tired me out.
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